Martes, Hulyo 14, 2015

7. Being In love with your Bestfriend

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If you've developed feelings for one of your bestfriends, you know how difficult it is. Why?

Because you should tell that you're in love with them. And you must be ready after a saying that you develop feelings for him / her (it can lose a friend-relationship because either one of you think its awkward). So you must SURE that you're really in love with them!

Difference between having a passing cruh on someone and truly being in love .For insistance, if:

1. You're on the rebound from past relationship
2. Your friend has been looking cutely lately
3. If your friend is dating someone and you found that she / he spending less time with you.
4 You and your friend became CLOSE ONLY and recently (which is the most common)

When you're friends with someone, you usually have a pretty good idea of ​​the type of person that they are. You've seen them in many different social settings and situations and know what to expect, to a certain degree. When you have this basic background knowledge about who a person is, it's much easier to talk freely and honestly, and everyone knows that clear, consistent communication is the key to any healthy relationship! In addition, having a comfortable "safe base" can actually make you feel empowered to take more risks, as a couple and individually. Knowing that you have the unwavering support of one of your closet friends, who also happens to be someone you love a lot, gives you the freedom and encouragement to seek opportunities and act on your inspirations. -unwrittened

You must give a lot of time to think about because it might be a temporary crush. And find out if the feelings disappear on their own. (If they do you will be relived OMG that you never assume.


2 komento:

  1. I've experience falling in love with my best friend, and it is really not good, why? because the relationship you built up as a best friends, will be wrecked, when you end your relation it's the same as stopping being best friends. It would be just disappointments so It really better if you think about it well because maybe it's just a temporary feeling.

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  2. Hi Angela! Yes, I have been in love with my best friend and I still am. I enjoy being in love with him because I know he loves me back and there are no awkwardness because we still see each other as best friends... :)

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